The spell ought to be done on a Friday night if possible, or if there is need of it. Formal circle casting isn’t necessary, but may be carried out if you so desire.
Casting Directions for ‘Anger Calming’
Inscribe each candle with 2 of the following runes:
Nied: To help calm distressed emotions
Gifu: To restore ones mental balance and perspective
Beorc: To bring back harmony into the household
Sigel: To bring healing to all effected
Kenaz: To renew peace within the household
Ing: To deliver a positive ending to the Circumstance
While carving the candles, make certain to visualize the person who’s the object of the charm as being happy, relaxed and calm. See any problems between the two of you as having already been resolved in a manner that promotes growth, mutual respect and understanding (not necessarily arrangement which may not be possible… just agreeing to disagree and letting the matter drop). Anoint each candle with the Peace Oil, again imagining another person and you living in harmony with all quarrels forgiven and forgotten. As you do that, chant: Dragons of hearth, Dragons of home, Stable as Earth, Stable as rock, Lend me your power, lend me your calm Help me to create this magical balm. Light the peace incense and light the candles. Write the persons name on every piece of paper in blue ink, and pass each one through the smoke of the incense and say: As smoke fades to nothing, so does the anger that lies between name and me. Let no harsh word or ill feeling stay that may cloud our hearts or minds. Light every piece of paper from another candle and place it in the fire-proof receptacle. As you light each one, chant: Peace I send from me to you, Love I send to follow through. From this anger be set free, As I will, so mote it be! Let the candles burn themselves out if possible. Otherwise, try to burn the candles for 2 hours each day/night till they burn out. If you throw a formal circle close it as usual.