This is a self-love spell, and as most people know to be loved you must love yourself first.
Casting Directions for ‘Serenity Prayer Spell’
First charge the blue candle with your intent, while rubbing the happiness oil onto it. Make sure since you are asking to bring happiness to you you need to rub the oil in an upward movement oil. (DO NOT RUB UP AND DOWN.)
Do the same. (Once again in a upward movement.)
Now while you’ve got the white candle in your hand and using the candle holder spike make a hole at the base of the candle. Set the candle to the side for the moment.
Now get the black candle and rub the banishing oil on the candle, but this time rub it in a downward motion.
Together with the Dove’s blood ink write down the serenity prayer.
God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I can’t change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
(If you think god is a woman or you decide not to specify gender you can alter the HE into SHE or IT, or when you call your god with another name you can put that in there. Personalize it the best it can to you since you have to belive this as your mantra.)
Now since you have written the prayer. Put the candles in a triangle with you at the middle. Take the dog hair and put it in the hole you left then seal the hole with wax. (Do not prematurely burn the hair.)
(The dog hair represents unconditional love)
Now with you in the center of the 3 candles light the blue one first which should be the top point of the candle. While holding the white candle in your hands visualize a wave of blue smoke coming off the candle and entering into your body. Then visualize yourself at peace, being loved, and being complete. When you are content move on to the white candle which should be on the left.
Since the white candle burns hold it in your hands, while imagining the blue smoke coming off the blue candle but mixing with white power coming from the white candle. Try to maintain the feeling of serenity, while thinking of all of the negative things in your life that you have the power to change. Now every time you unleash those memories viualize the lightning bolt zapping in a bright white light then visualize how the situation could be changed to the better.
Eventually turn towards the candle, and light it. Think of all the bad and negative things in your life, you don’t have the capacity to change. Pick the candle up, and visualize all that pent up negativity leaving your body and penetrating into the candle.
By the time you are full with all the black candle you should feel tired but completely at peace. If you do not feel completely at peace then you did not get rid of all of the negativity.
As soon as you feel completely at peace, blow off just the black candle and wrap it in a black cloth. Allow the white and blue candles to continue to burn. Using the wax from the white and blue candles seal it closed.
Visualize all that positive energy that you put into the white and blue candle merging with the parchment you just sealed.
Allow the white and blue candle to continue to burn but in case you can’t keep your eye on the candles snuff them out until you can return to them, and come back to it later. With your prayer not charged keep it with you at all times, when you sleep, work, go to college, etc.. .