This spell will help cure all past emotional wounds and open your heart to enjoy. It is best preformed on a Friday, preferably on a moon.
Casting Instructions for ‘Opening Yourself Up to Love and Healing’
Draw a circle on the ground with chalk or something else. Make sure it is large enough to store yourself and your altar. Put all of your ingredients on the alter, organizing them however you want. Purify the ring with sea salt.
Face East, holding the yellow candle. Light the candle and say. I summon the powers of Air! Windswept meadow, breath of life, fantastic torrent removing strife, with clarity, the capacity to understand, I invoke you! Set the candle on the floor on the edge of the circle and say, By the Air that is Her breath, be with me now. Draw the symbol for Air above the candle. If you dont know what that is, then here is a link to a picture that shows all the elements symbols: http://occult-advances.org/images/j.jpg
Now, face South, holding the red candle. Light the candle and say, Hail Guardians of the South. I summon the powers of Fire! Blazing flame, crackling fire, the quickened pulse of hearts desire, with energy, the energy of will, I invoke you! Set the candle at the edge of the circle on the ground and say, By the Fire that is her soul, be with me now. Draw the symbol of fire over the candle.
Face the West now, holding the candle. Light the candle and say, Hail Guardians of the West. I summon the forces of Water!Rushing stream, vast, dark ocean, poetry of the soul in motion, with intuition, feeling, the power to dare, I invoke you! Put the candle on the ground at the edge of the circle and say, By the Waters of Her uterus and by the Water that is Her blood, be with me now. Draw the symbol for water over the candle.
Face North, holding the green candle. Light it and say, Hail Guardians of the North. I summon the powers of Earth! Cave of darkness, standing stone, the party of flesh and bone, with stillness, the power of silence, I invoke you! Place the candle on the floor at the Northern area of the circle and say, By the Earth that is Her body, be with me now. Draw the symbol for Earth within the candle. Now, move to the center of your circle where your altar ought to be.
Light the purple candle in the center of your altar and say, As above, so below. As within, so without. Four stars in this place be, combined to call the fifth to me. Circumfrence and center, woven together, to make the circle complete! Draw a pentagram over the candle.
Now, walk around your circle three times, clockwise, starting from the East. As soon as you make it back to the East after your next time, say, This circle is closed. Imagine a sphere forming around your circle, going deep into the ground and sky, combining both. Now, you’re ready to preform the spell.
Catch the White Sage Smudge Stick and light it, fanning the smoke on your own. You might want to do this outside so you wont set off any alarms. As you fan both your back and front, think cleansing, calm thoughts. Let the sense of peace and tranquility consume you as the smoke purifies you. Allow the smoke fan around the circle as well. When you and your circle are cleansed, place the smudge stick next to the yellow candle or just put it out. Light the lavender incense and let it burn.
Smell the aroma of the lavender and allow it to calm you. At the center of your altar, near the purple candle, place the pink candle. Place the pearls/pink rose petals around it. Light the candle, saying, I invoke the Goddess Aphrodite. With her, may she bring the power to love. Aphrodite, please take these pearls/rose petals, as they are a gift to you.
Now, grab the white and black candles, setting them before the pink candle. Light the candle, saying, This candle represents all of the hardships I have been through. This candles keeps me and holds me back. It blocks my healing. It is the fear within me, and the fear must be extinguished. Now, take the time to tell the candle each the hardships you’ve been through in life. This could be deaths, break-ups, or bad luck. When you have finished telling the fire all of the bad things, then put it out with your fingers. (Lick them before you do it so that you wont get burned.) DO NOT BLOW THE CANDLE OUT. It requires the magick off with it. Anyway, you will deeply offend the element Fire.
Now, light the white candle and say, This candle represents the recovery that is to come. This represents the future happiness and calm that I will feel. It is the sun rising, the light in the darkness, and my expectation. May it burn in my heart. Now, grab the bowl of water and put some sea salt in it, saying, I purify this water. Pour some of the white candles wax to the bowl. Following this is done, say, The true flame burns within me. Then, put out the white candles fire with your fingers. If youre a pansy, then use something else to snuff it out with.
Focus on the pink candle again and say, Aphrodite, Goddess of Love and Beauty. Please bring beauty into my life and fill me with love. Now, talk about all your desires and hopes into the candle. When you’re finished, pour some of the pink wax into the water. Then say, Goddess Aphrodite, thank you. I’ll hold you no more. Please accept my appreciation. Snuff out the candles flame.
Now, take the bowl of water and state, Water heal me and mold me. Turn me into the person I need to be. Dip your fingers in the water and draw a pentagram on your forehead with it.
Walk three times around your circle, counter-clockwise, and when you get to East after your next time, say, The circle is open but not broken. Proceed to the center of your circle and take your purple candle. Say, Spirit, thank you for your wholeness and completion in tonights circle. Please leave, but leave in peace and beauty.
Snuff out the candle. Proceed to the North and catch your green candle. Pick it up and say, Earth, thank you for your strength and guidance in tonights circle. Please leave, but leave in peace and beauty. Snuff out the candle.Go to the West and grab the blue candle. Say, Water, thank you for your healing and peace in tonights circle. Please depart, but leave in peace and beauty. Snuff out the candle.Go to the South and catch the red candle. Say, Fire, thank you for your passion and energy in tonights circle. Please depart, but do it in peace and beauty. Snuff out the candle.Go to the East and grab the yellow candle. Say, Air, thank you for your wisdom and bravery in tonights circle. Please leave, but do it in beauty and love.
Clean up all your things and then grab the rose petals/pearls and bury them beneath a tree or toss them into running water. This ends the spell. Remember, though, that a spell does not work alone. You should not expect this to welcome love into your life if you lock yourself up in a room. You will need to go out and begin to speak with people, start to have fun, and start to forget. Magick can only work if we believe in it and assist it. Thank you.