In Wicca, as in many spiritual paths, it’s considered unethical to interfere with another person’s free will. Spells to make someone love you are typically frowned upon because they attempt to impose your will on another person, effectively taking away their choice. The core ethical guideline in Wicca is the Wiccan Rede, which states, “An it harm none, do what ye will.” This means you should not perform actions that would cause harm to others or yourself.
Instead of a spell to make someone love you, I can guide you on a spell to open your own heart to love, which can help attract love into your life in a more general sense. This type of work focuses on enhancing your personal energy and allowing love to find you, rather than targeting a specific person.
**A Spell to Attract Love into Your Life**
– Pink candle (for love)
– Rose quartz (for enhancing love energy)
– Lavender or rose petals (for attracting love)
– Paper and pen
– A small pouch or cloth
– Your favorite perfume or essential oil that invokes love for you (like rose or ylang-ylang)
1. **Cleansing:** Begin by cleansing your space and yourself. You can use sage, palo santo, or simply visualize a bright light washing over the area and yourself, carrying away any negative energy.
2. **Create a Sacred Space:** Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. You might want to create a small altar or place where you can focus your energy.
3. **Cast a Circle:** If you practice this part of Wiccan ritual, cast a circle to create a sacred space where only positive energies can enter.
4. **Light the Candle:** As you light the pink candle, focus on the flame and visualize it glowing with a warm, loving energy.
5. **Hold the Rose Quartz:** Take the rose quartz in your hands and hold it close to your heart. Close your eyes and imagine a pink light emanating from the stone, surrounding you with love.
6. **Write Your Intentions:** On a piece of paper, write down the qualities you are looking for in a relationship or partner, focusing on the feelings and experiences you wish to attract, rather than on a specific person.
7. **Anoint with Scent:** Sprinkle the lavender or rose petals over the paper and add a drop or two of your chosen perfume or essential oil.
8. **Fold the Paper:** Fold the paper around the petals, creating a small packet. Place this inside the pouch or wrap it in the cloth.
9. **Seal Your Intentions:** Hold the pouch close to your heart and say a simple rhyme or statement of intent, such as:
“By this spell that I have cast,
I open my heart to love at last.
I seek not to bend will or mind,
But true love for me to find.
As I will it, so mote it be.”
10. **Close the Circle:** If you cast a circle, now is the time to close it, often by walking in the opposite direction of your opening, thanking and releasing any energies or entities that assisted in your ritual.
11. **Carry the Pouch:** Keep the pouch with you, in a purse or pocket, or place it somewhere in your home where you will see it often, to remind you of your intentions.
12. **Let It Go:** Release your attachment to the outcome. Trust that the universe will bring love to you in the right form at the right time.
Remember that the most powerful magic often comes from within ourselves, from our intentions, actions, and the energy we put out into the world. Living your life authentically and being open to love in all forms is often the most potent spell of all.