A spell using candles, herbs, and crystals to attract friendship.
-1 brown candle (for friendship)
-1 pink candle (for friendship, love, and female energy)
-1 gold candle (for pleasure, achievement, and masculine energy)
-dried rosemary (for friendship and masculine energy)
-dried catnip (such as friendship, love, and feminine energy)
-rose oil (such as friendship, love, and happiness)
-rose quartz (such as friendship, love, and happiness)
-a long screw or a cuticle stick
Casting Directions for ‘3 Candle Friend Attraction Spell’
To be performed on a waxing moon (as the moon grows, so will future friends’ attraction to you) and on a Sunday (the Sun’s day, relates to prosperity and friendship) or a Friday (Venus’ day, relates to love)
I suggest using votives since you’ll be making holes in these candles and filling them with oil and herbs that are specific to attracting friendship.
Make 3 holes in each of the 3 candles with your screw or cuticle stick, then fill them with a few drips of increased oil and the rosemary and catnip. Allow them to sit in the sun together with the rose quartz to cleanse. I for example did this from Friday to Sunday, so that they were all cleansed by the Sun’s day. When you decide it is the right to cast your spell, cast the circle as usual and sit with the candles and crystal to infuse them with your personal power. Focus on how much you want a friend, how much fun it’ll be to spend time with them, what sort of friendship you want. Light them, hold the rose quartz crystal in your hands, then say the following:
“Mother Goddess and Father God,
A friend is what I seek,
And I ask that I might no longer be modest.
Help me shine and glow
So that an attraction they’ll show.
Male, female, or between,
Make it so I will be observed.
May they be kind, may they be infrequent,
May they be willing to share.
A friend who gives their support and love,
And sees me as someone to be proud of.
Someone Who will understand,
And when I need it, will hold my hands.
Someone who loves to laugh and have fun,
And is as unique as the midnight sun.
Bring this friend to me,
This is my plea,
And harm none, so mote it be.”
You may edit the next section of the spell to fit the type of friend you want. Remember, this spell is all about the sort of person you wish to attract to a platonic relationship, so make it your own! After reciting the words, close the circle and allow the candles to burn out on their own safely. I hope you all find friends that value you and respect you just because you do them! Blessed be!
